I know your still in love with your ex.. so the thoughts are with her... I am just a distraction....I share with you as i know when you falling in love real love for the first time..hard to let go..I did fall in deep love but I was used and embezzled
took me, a lot of self work
to understand that love can be one sided.. and used against you..
take care....
You are comparing your love life from someone you once loved to the new person..
That is really un fair..for the new person, they are not a replacement for what you lost.. no one will ever fill those high expectations.. Each woman that comes in your life is different.. and that is something to cherish... you will never get back what you lost... The way it is to take that woman for her.. and when you are ready to do so..sexual encounters will be exciting for you and love will come to you... not before when you expect the same sex from what you had to what you have now.. ..
Your child hood has also taught you certain things and you will never get that back.. unless you marry or have sex with that one person..again.. and it wont be the same.. when you are ready to let go of the past,,
you will enjoy sexual encounters with new experiances..
I thank you for sharing your past and your inner wants .. that was special.. I appreciate that..
There is another aspect you need to look into.. that mother took away something from you wheather you know it or not... the real sexual ability to have sex with a real love... as each time you have sex with a potential partner you will always be comparing her against that first experiance and it interfears with all your relationships.. you want to relive having that sexual encounter with that mother.. and now allow yourself to be with the one you are with now.. it is something which will never change untill you complete with that.. you see..many men who were taught by motheers.. never stay in one relationship.. as they will always compare the first encounter with the rest of the women in life.. trying to re capture that special moments.. also they use sex as just sex and have no emotional.... connection with the person they are with..
they lose the ability to really love the person they are with..that connection.. as they will always compare experiances with their first lover,, good or bad.. and if they cannot find better they will move from woman to woman trying to re capture those special moments that they miss...weather they know it or not.. I know your still in love with your ex.. so the thoughts are with her... I am just a distraction....I share with you as i know when you fallnin love real love for the firs time..hard to let go..
I did fall in deep love but I was used and embezzeled took me alot of self work to understand that love can be one sided.. and used against you .... take care....
You are comparing your love life from someone you once loved to the new person.. That is really un fair..for the new person, they are not a replacement for what you lost.. no one will ever fill those high expectations.. or those special experiences.....
Each woman that comes in your life is different.. and that is something to cherish... you will never get back what you lost... The way it is to take that woman for her.. and when you are ready to do so..sexual encounters will be exciting for you and love will come to you... not before when you expect the same sex from what you had to what you have now.. ..
Your child hood has also taught you certain things and you will never get that back.. unless you marry or have sex with that one person..again.. and it wont be the same.. when you are ready to let go of the past,, you will enjoy sexual encounters with new experiences.. until that happens you will move from woman to woman .. I thank you for sharing your past and your inner wants .. that was special.. I appreciate that..
There is another aspect you need to look into.. that mother took away something from you whether you know it or not... the real sexual ability to have sex with a real love... as each time you have sex with a potential partner you will always be comparing her against that first experience and it interferes with all your relationships.. you want to relive in having that sexual encounter with that friends' mother.. and now allow yourself to be with the one you are with now.. it is something which will never change until you complete with that.. you see..many men who were taught by friends mothers.. never stay in one relationship.. as they will always compare the first encounter with the rest of the women in life.. trying to re capture that special moments.. so they use sex as just sex and have no emotional Ronald Simmons: connection with the person they are with.. they lose the ability to really love the person they are with..that connection.. as they will always compare experiences with their first lover,, good or bad.. and if they cannot find better they will move from woman to woman trying to re capture those special moments that they miss...weather they know it or not..
took me, a lot of self work
to understand that love can be one sided.. and used against you..
take care....
You are comparing your love life from someone you once loved to the new person..
That is really un fair..for the new person, they are not a replacement for what you lost.. no one will ever fill those high expectations.. Each woman that comes in your life is different.. and that is something to cherish... you will never get back what you lost... The way it is to take that woman for her.. and when you are ready to do so..sexual encounters will be exciting for you and love will come to you... not before when you expect the same sex from what you had to what you have now.. ..
Your child hood has also taught you certain things and you will never get that back.. unless you marry or have sex with that one person..again.. and it wont be the same.. when you are ready to let go of the past,,
you will enjoy sexual encounters with new experiances..
I thank you for sharing your past and your inner wants .. that was special.. I appreciate that..
There is another aspect you need to look into.. that mother took away something from you wheather you know it or not... the real sexual ability to have sex with a real love... as each time you have sex with a potential partner you will always be comparing her against that first experiance and it interfears with all your relationships.. you want to relive having that sexual encounter with that mother.. and now allow yourself to be with the one you are with now.. it is something which will never change untill you complete with that.. you see..many men who were taught by motheers.. never stay in one relationship.. as they will always compare the first encounter with the rest of the women in life.. trying to re capture that special moments.. also they use sex as just sex and have no emotional.... connection with the person they are with..
they lose the ability to really love the person they are with..that connection.. as they will always compare experiances with their first lover,, good or bad.. and if they cannot find better they will move from woman to woman trying to re capture those special moments that they miss...weather they know it or not.. I know your still in love with your ex.. so the thoughts are with her... I am just a distraction....I share with you as i know when you fallnin love real love for the firs time..hard to let go..
I did fall in deep love but I was used and embezzeled took me alot of self work to understand that love can be one sided.. and used against you .... take care....
You are comparing your love life from someone you once loved to the new person.. That is really un fair..for the new person, they are not a replacement for what you lost.. no one will ever fill those high expectations.. or those special experiences.....
Each woman that comes in your life is different.. and that is something to cherish... you will never get back what you lost... The way it is to take that woman for her.. and when you are ready to do so..sexual encounters will be exciting for you and love will come to you... not before when you expect the same sex from what you had to what you have now.. ..
Your child hood has also taught you certain things and you will never get that back.. unless you marry or have sex with that one person..again.. and it wont be the same.. when you are ready to let go of the past,, you will enjoy sexual encounters with new experiences.. until that happens you will move from woman to woman .. I thank you for sharing your past and your inner wants .. that was special.. I appreciate that..
There is another aspect you need to look into.. that mother took away something from you whether you know it or not... the real sexual ability to have sex with a real love... as each time you have sex with a potential partner you will always be comparing her against that first experience and it interferes with all your relationships.. you want to relive in having that sexual encounter with that friends' mother.. and now allow yourself to be with the one you are with now.. it is something which will never change until you complete with that.. you see..many men who were taught by friends mothers.. never stay in one relationship.. as they will always compare the first encounter with the rest of the women in life.. trying to re capture that special moments.. so they use sex as just sex and have no emotional Ronald Simmons: connection with the person they are with.. they lose the ability to really love the person they are with..that connection.. as they will always compare experiences with their first lover,, good or bad.. and if they cannot find better they will move from woman to woman trying to re capture those special moments that they miss...weather they know it or not..
