Saturday, September 26, 2015

Unconditional

Unconditional
By Sonia F Stevens

I Love you
I love unconditional
 I also like you as a person
My love for you then is filled with joy.

I sometimes just do not like your behavior
If you do make a mistake
I still love you and forgive you and like you.

If you make a decision \ choose and keep doing it.
I will not like you as a person,
My love for you is unconditional

My Love turns to sadness rather than joy.
When you make life hard and fill it with hurt and pain.
I will still love you

Copyrighted©2004-2007 by Sonia F Stevens
PO Box 174
Southgate Sylvania NSW 2224

Walking

Walking
By Sonia Frances Stevens

If you see me walking down the street
Dragging my two feet,
You just pass me by
This makes me cry,….still
But you can make me whole again
Baby I will always want you in my life
Baby you turn me on. You can make me whole.
Tired and missing you in my heart
Seems I have too much of it, since we are apart.
I am not trying to put you down
Looking back to when we first met
I can never escape or even forget Baby you’re the one who turns me on.
Baby I will always want you in my life
For now I will have to have to wait.
If you change your mind, do not make it too late,
As I cannot go on.
Baby you make me whole and complete again.

If you see me walking down the street
Come to me where we will meet.

Copyright©2006 by Sonia Frances Stevens

WALLS

Walls

By Sonia F Stevens©


We each have created walls.
It is because we all have had our own falls.
Some walls are high.
Some walls even block out the sky.
Some walls are thin.
There are walls, which encumber a rim.
Walls are thick so nothing will break in.
There are invisible walls and walls with cores.
There are all types of walls
There are so many ways, so many falls.
We can defiantly make our own walls.

We learn from our walls
We all shut those doors on those walls.
Each person has pain
Each person has a dark blame
Each one of us is also to blame
Because of these walls,
We unwittingly make some desirous calls.
These walls were put up for protection
These walls are also our rejection.
But the walls are our own prison
Because, well all are forgetting our affection...

This is a major case for reflection
These walls have to be our own damnation.
We could never adjust for our own protection.
We all fear everyone’s rejection.

When these walls fall down
We each can turn around.
Come to terms with all matters of life
To heal and grow
 Live a true life.
For, we each wants to live a life
To turn and learn
To experience, to dream
We each have the right to live out our own life.
We each have the right to speak, to listen, to question,
To answer, to learn, to teach and even to preach.
We are all learning, growing, and even showing.

Each, every single person has a right to live a life.
Each one of us has the right to give, to ask, to receive.
We are all worthy to live our own life.

The walls can be hard
This is because we learnt hard lessons
Do not want to remember what was on the agenda
While we were growing.
Each wall is different

Spend time to really care
Spend time to remember why those walls are there.
Then take the time to really care
These walls need your particular care

You have a chance to soften the walls
You have a chance to even break down those walls.
Show yourself that you can really care
Care for yourself.


Copyright©2006-2007 by Sonia F Stevens

What ever Your desire

What ever Your desire
By Sonia Frances Stevens

What ever you desire
This is when my life is full of fire.

The heat is high and I am running of reserve
Because I have given you all that I thought you deserved.

Don’t worry about the state I am
I will not look back again

Why should I now look back
Because of the state I am in.

What ever you desire
My life will always be full of fire.

Copyright© 2006-2007 by Sonia Frances Stevens

What Is In Your Heart

What Is In Your Heart

By Sonia F Stevens©

Please close your beautiful blue eyes and believe in your heart.
What is in your heart,
Can never be taken from you.
Believe in yourself
That is how dreams all start.

For to close ones’ eyes
You must open ones’ heart.
For in ones’ heart
You can never part
Right from the very start
For the heart is true,
Right from the very start.

To open ones heart
You must close your eyes,
For then you see no lies.

Believe in yourself
I always believed in you.
That is how your dreams will start.

Keep on searching
Far and wide
Dreams are worth having
When they come from deep inside.

For it is what is inside your heart
That is you, right from your own heart.

The heart is in your dreams
And your dreams are in you heart.
For no one can take them away from you,
They are always in your heart.

Copyright©2005-2007 by Sonia F Stevens

When you believe

When you believe
By Sonia F Stevens

When you believe from deep within your heart
Things will come true
Things that you want in your life

When you have faith
When things as thought as possible
All of a sudden they are

There is nothing that is impossible when you believe
All things become possible

Everything imagined will be achieved
When you believe from deep within your heart
Dreams come true
Anything and everything is possible

Everyone makes mistakes
Three words which all it takes to heal those mistakes.
The most powerful words
The hardest words to say are:
“I forgive you”

“I believe in you”

“I love you”

Copyrighted©2003-2007 by Sonia F Stevens

Who is He Who Deceives Me

Who is He Who Deceives Me
By Sonia F Stevens©
I take control back of my life’s entire roll.
I accept this, as my life.
I live this as my life.
You came into my life
I shared all, to my strife
You took complete control
Of everything, and you even stole.
Everything in my life
And nearly my very soul.
You conned me,
Deceived me.
Finished me, financially.
You never again came knocking,
You hid, because you knew it is shocking
What you did when you were a knocking.
You blamed other for you deceit,  in some way
This made you feel complete.
You always said, “It’s others”
Who did and that,
But it was always, you,
Who is the real Rat.
You are the one who hits your own back.
For you are the one,
Who is always doing that.
Just once, I gave you that chance.
A life to live,
A life of a real change
A life without rage or being in that cage.
A Chance to become a Leader
A chance to not be a deceiver.
And let you rediscover
You too, can be a real lover,
For I wanted you to show your true colours
To show others
That they should run for cover
But in the end, you became one of them.
A hard and an uncaring man,
Who cons everyone
In the end.
Then goes underground
 Pretends he is the victim.
For he is the real Deceiver,
For he can never deliver.
Copyright©2005-2007 by Sonia F Stevens

Words or Wisdom

Words or Wisdom
By Sonia Frances Stevens

With everything that we all endure
It is our life that we must secure.

Each person we do meet.
There is something we learn when we greet.

With turmoil all around of life
With everyone, life is ours to keep
Through strife when things are at ends
It is up to you and me to make amends.

You and I are the same
You and I are here to learn
You and I are here to share.
We share because deep down inside,
We all do really care.

In bad times,
We face our life to learn.
Being together,
Is what we all learn.

In good times,
We celebrate,
Because we learnt to overcome the hard times.

Each phase of life
You and I must share.
Because deep inside we really do care.

Being alone,
We all go into despair.
Being tighter, we learn, love, share, care,
And we work for each other.

So my words to you are:
Share your life, in all types of weather.
Because no man is an island.

To live a fruitful life you and I must share.
You and I open our heart to care.

We love, give what others need,
Listen,
And validate each others point of view.
We hold their truth in our hearts
And do not distort it,
Or judge it.

Only then do we experience inner peace,
Self- love and joy.

Copyright©2005-2007by Sonia F Stevens

With Words

With Words
By Sonia F Stevens

With words of pain, hurt and strife
We cut our way through a painful life.

If words of love, passion and heart.
We all live life with peaceful grace.
And then we become a true part of the human race.
We all keep up to our own pace.

To have passion
You have progression
To have love
You open your own heart
Thing like this,
Is how we all start our lives
This is how we reach our thoughts
This is were our words come from
Meaning what we all have the share.
A word tells the world how we each care.
Also tells others’ how we share.
How we all really care.

Copyrighted©2006-2007 by Sonia F Stevens

Friday, May 29, 2015

7 Steps Try to combat lonelness

1. Remember that although the distinction can be difficult to draw, loneliness and solitude are different. White observes, “It’s entirely reasonable to feel lonely yet still feel as though you need some time to yourself.” Loneliness feels draining, distracting, and upsetting; desired solitude feels peaceful, creative, restorative.

2. Nurturing others — raising children, teaching, caring for animals — helps to alleviate loneliness.

3. Keep in mind that to avoid loneliness, many people need both a social circle and an intimate attachment. Having just one of two may still leave you feeling lonely.

4. Work hard to get your sleep. One of the most common indicators of loneliness is broken sleep — taking a long time to fall asleep, waking frequently, and feeling sleepy during the day. Sleep deprivation, under any circumstances, brings down people’s moods, makes them more likely to get sick, and dampens their energy, so it’s important to tackle this issue. (Here are some tips on getting good sleep.)

5. Try to figure out what’s missing from your life. White observes that making lots of plans with friends didn’t alleviate her loneliness. “What I wanted,” she writes, “was the quiet presence of another person.” She longed to have someone else just hanging around the house with her. The more clearly you see what’s lacking, the more clearly you’ll see possible solutions.

6. Take steps to connect with other people (to state the obvious). Show up, make plans, sign up for a class, take a minute to chat.

7. Stay open. Negative emotions like loneliness, envy, and guilt have an important role to play in a happy life; they’re big, flashing signs that something needs to change. The pain of loneliness can prod you to connect with other people. Unfortunately–and this may seem counter-intuitive--loneliness itself can make people feel more negative, critical, and judgmental. If you recognize that your loneliness may be affecting you in that way, you can take steps to counter it.

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Real Understanding

I gave and still give.... As I understand what it is to have nothing. I request people to consider many aspects of life's hardships and disasters. I find that the ones who know what it is like to have nothing, gives the most. Do the most. Respects the most.
 
When you see the statistic and percentages of giving.
Wealthy, give only 1% or 10% for tax reasons.
Those who give most give 30 -60 % who have been poor and know what it is like to have nothing.
% and statistics , which I have been informed ... don't lie.
 

Friday, May 8, 2015

Words Or Wisdom

WE Don't Lose Friends! WE Just Learn WHO Our Friends REALY ARE.

Intelligence is like an underwear. It is important that you have it, but not necessary that you show it off.

Fake people never surprise me these days. Loyal and forgiving people do.

Words cannot hurt you, unless the words said, came by the person you care about the most.

The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears. And the kindest hearts have felt the most pain.

Sometimes you miss the memories, not the person.

Don't waste your time on revenge. Those who hurt you will eventually face their own karma.
Haters will broadcast your failure, but whisper your success..

Apologizing does not always mean you are wrong. It just means that you value your relationships more than your ego.

Respect is earned, Honesty is appreciated, Love is gained and Loyalty is returned.

Women fall in love by what they hear. Men fall in love by what they see. That's why most women wear makeup and most men lie.

The less you care, the happier you will be.

I rather have an honest enemy than a fake friend.

Sometimes you have to shut up, swallow your pride and accept that you’re wrong. It’s not giving up, it’s called growing up.

A pretty face is nothing if you have an ugly heart.

Twitter has a bird as its logo, that's why when you join you're an egg. And your home button is a birdhouse. Why am I just getting this?

Why do we close our eyes when we pray, cry, kiss or dream? Because the most beautiful things in life are not seen but felt by the heart.

Someone who really loves you sees what a mess you can be, how moody you can get, how hard u are to handle, but still wants u in their life.

If you're absent during my struggle, don't expect to be present during my success.

Don't cry because they left. Just smile because they gave you a chance to find someone better.

I don't regret the things I've done, I regret the things I didn't do when I had the chance.

Fake friends are like shadows: always near you at your brightest moments, but nowhere to be seen at your darkest hour.

You never just stop loving someone, either you always will, or you never did in the first place.

The worst feeling is when someone makes you feel special, then suddenly leaves you hanging, and you have to act like you don't care at all.

When a someone tells you about their problems, it does not mean they complains. It means they trusts you.

God has perfect timing; never early, never late. It takes a little patience and faith, but it's worth the wait.

The worst feeling is pretending you don't care about someone, when really they are all you think about.

God doesn't make mistakes. Trust it, when someone ends up in your past, they're there for a reason.

If you don't fight for what you want, don't cry for what you lost.

Breathe. It's just a bad day, not a bad life.

You get in the biggest fights with the people you care about the most, because they are the relationships you're willing to fight for.

No matter how good or bad you think life is, wake up each day and be thankful for life. Someone somewhere else is fighting to survive.

Honestly, I don't have time to hate people who hate me cause I'm too busy loving people who love me.

Don’t judge my choices if you don’t understand my reasons.

The words I love you: I am sorry: Please forgive me: and Thank you , need to be said.. as it is those words which make life a live and have meaning.. when a per...son say's them, it is up to you bo believe them or not.. and the person saying them has to really mean them for them to be taken seriously.. Do not kid around when they are said.. Same is for asking someone to marry them... and these words are not a joke..

Sometimes you have to care less, in order to see if they'll care more....

I found that who I am is unimportant. What I do is more important. Inspire creative passions which you were born to achieve and be, is!

I don't forgive people because I'm weak. I forgive them because I am strong enough to know people make mistakes.

Hate the fact that you ignore me for so long, then you start talking to me like nothing happened.

I love my mom no matter what we go through, no matter how much we argue, because I know, at the end, she'll always be there.

Looking at a photograph and wishing you could re-live that moment over and over again.

No one has the right to judge you. They might have heard your stories, but they didn't feel what you were going through.

Distance means nothing when someone means everything.

Strangers can become best friends just as easy as best friends can become strangers.

I don't hate you, I never will. I just act like I do, because it's easier than admitting that I miss you.

If you don't do stupid things while you're young, you'll have nothing to smile about when you're old.

If you truly love someone, all you want is for them to be happy, even if deep down, all you want is for you to be their happiness.

Appreciate those who love you. Help those who need you. Forgive those who hurt you. Forget those who leave you.

Sometimes it’s a good thing to have fake people in this world. It helps you find out who your real friends are.

Over-thinking ruins you. Ruins the situation, twists things around, makes you worry and just makes everything much worse than it actually is.

The best revenge is happiness, because nothing drives people more crazy then seeing someone actually having a good life.

Just because you can't see the air, doesn't mean you stop breathing. Just because you can't see God doesn't mean you stop believing.

I want to write "I miss you" on a rock and throw it at your face so you know how much it hurts to miss you.

Things will get worse before they get better. But when they do, remember who put you down and who helped you up.

No matter how busy a person is, if they really care, they'll always find time for you.

One of the hardest parts of life is deciding whether to walk away or try harder.

Never give up on something you really want. It's difficult to wait, but more difficult to regret.

We don't lose friends. We just learn who our real ones are.

Its funny how you can do nice things for people all the time and they never notice. But once you make one mistake, its never forgotten.

Good things come to those who wait... Better things come to those who don't give up... and the best things come to those who believe.

Just because we don't talk doesn't mean I don't think about you. I'm just trying to distance myself because I know I can't have you.

Everyone comes into your life for a reason, some for good or bad, they may shape us, break us, but in the end they make us who we are.

Don't trust too much. Don't love too much. Don't hope too much. Because that too much can hurt you so much.

Where ever you are, be there totaly. If your are here and now makes you unhappy, you hae three options: a) Remove yourself,b) Change it, c) Accept it totally.

Life's not about people who act true to your face. It's about people who remain true behind your back.

I'd much rather have an enemy who can admit that they hate me, than to have a "friend" whose mission is to put me down secretly.

Don't promise when you're happy, Don't reply when you're angry, and don't decide when you're sad.

Grades don't measure intelligence and age doesn't define maturity.

Being in a relationship is not about kissing, dates or showing off. It's about being with the person who makes you happy.

Sometimes you have to let things go, so there's room for better things to come into your life.

Stop caring what people think. Stop taking caution in your actions, listen to what you want, do what you want, this is your life. Live it.

No one is perfect.. there are always mistakes.. it is your integrity which keeps you who you are abel you can forgive and move on from mistakes or you can live in mistakes and get swallowed up and forgotten in mistakes..


Do what you have to do today so you can do what you want tomorrow. What you to really want is a life us that takes pride that you have lived, and that takes work. The only way that we can truly live, is to grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change.  The only way to change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way we can become exposed is if we are willing to place ourselves out there and work through life’s difficulties.


A life is like a garden. Perfect moments can be had, but not preserved, except in memory.




Do what you have to do today so you can do what you want tomorrow. What you to really want is a life us that takes pride that you have lived, and that takes work. The only way that we can truly live, is to grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change.  The only way to change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way we can become exposed is if we are willing to place ourselves out there and work through life’s difficulties.