Friday, October 7, 2011

Prevention Wisdom of Suicide

 Topic Of the Day: Prevention Wisdom of Suicide. This has come up many time. The only real risk in prevention is not doing anything. Although many people do this. When there is a reason to be worried about a person, it is important to share that information.

"What do you think about this situation?".

Mental Health is very important, so approaching someone in the Mental Health, even by animus, to get an idea on steps to follow with your intuition. A big part in suicide prevention is to be a great listener.
Many times, there is impulses to minimise the experience of a person who says, "My partner left me", I feel horrible", I'm flunking". Do not give the pep talk, "Its not all that bad", "that IS NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT". bETTER TO SAY THE FOLLOWING, "You're not the first person to feel this way.

I am here for you. I know where we can get some assistance. Let's Call them. It is important to be prepared and not scared. It is empowering for both to know what to look for. There are many warning signs, text messages, on line videos, promoting their plans through these media sources. Many exhibit paranoia, schizophrenia, delusions even hallucinations.

There is no simple explanation for a very complex behaviour with biological, sociological, psychological ,conscious and unconscious elements. How a tragedy is managed can influence whether someone else might attempt on their life. Post mention,- the actions taken after a tragedy, then comes a form of prevention. Our culture does little to assist the grieving; The message everyone.. I mean everyone is "GET OVER IT" The ones left behind want to know "WHY" and their feeling of "Guilt" as they may have had an argument with that loved one. There is NO "Get over it". That is the wrong thing to even say to another person.

 Many families that do best after a such a tragedy has a healthy communication before that point. Sharing their pain and grief. They talk together.      Those who shut themselves off are the ones who require tolerance love and understanding and someone to never give up on them also. written by Sonia F Stevens
 

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Judgements

Non Judgemental is not reacting or giving advice according to your own belief system.  Fully accepting the person and their experiences, which can be separate to your own experiences.  Non judgement is genuine acceptance of different backgrounds and beliefs between you and the other person.
Suspension of judgement is suitable whenever someone discloses themselves and are feeling vulnerable to other peoples opinions and criticisms.  When they are trying to open up and trust you. We can often make judgements or conclusions too early before someone has finished talking. I find being non-judgemental in communicating takes a lot of self awareness.
Non-judgemental is important in interpersonal communication because it allows you to be completely open to the other person and what they are discussing and the other person will be heard.  It enables the person to experience and accept more of who they are and reconnect with their values and self worth.  It allows you to fully understand & value the other person’s point of view.
 

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

people with a twist.

The Past is now in Past. Completion of that past is always with you. When you have done that, the world opens up and your movement forward begins with ease as it is no longer a struggle.

 Some people like to inform you in private that your in control and they are doing other things and have no time for that area, then turn around in public and slam...m you down.. What you do is, you stand. You walk away from them and be proud of who you are, as you have integrity and they don't. They just proven their word means nothing and yours means everything.. especially when people know the truth.

Your the one who has standards, your the one who never needs to prove a thing. Your the one who has gain the respect which no amount of money or influences can buy that respect.