Power of one and Power of Love with responsibility

We are not isolated beings going about our business alone on this planet. In fact, science is now illustrating for us how deeply connected and insignificantly different we are. Many of us often feel disconnected, searching for a sense of belonging, whether it’s with a partner or family, co-workers, friends, or strangers.
We need to draw together people who want healthy, meaningful, and lasting connections with others in their lives. We need and will provide the nurturing environment, support, and guidance you need to help you connect with others—and yourself—in new, healthy, and understanding ways.

When everyone acknowledges that our physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and social lives cannot be separated. As we address one of these parts of our self, we affect the whole. As we begin to heal our own life, we also affect those around us, bringing health and healing to our families, communities, and the planet. 

Whether working with the body—through yoga, tai chi, qigong, massage, reflexology, or sports; or working with the mind—through Western psychology, mindfulness and meditation practice, psychic intuition, past-life regression, or the latest developments in energy medicine; or working with spiritual development paths to experience the divine mysteries within and all around us—a holistic journey of personal growth and self exploration is as rewarding as it is important. A leader cannot be effective without the support of the community, and the health of a community is directly related to the quality of leadership.

Where is this chicken-and-egg scenario begin? It begins with personal transformation. As Mahatma Gandhi said, "Be the change you want to see in the world." Although change begins with each one of us, we often need support and guidance to take our vision of transformation into our community. Our personal journey with our role as a global citizen, promoting understanding, cooperation, harmony, and positive social change in the world.

Learn to bring peace to divided groups, open a socially conscious business, or communicate more clearly. Stop blaming others and take responsibility for our own life's and show that we care for the many, including the one lost sheep. Empower others in our communities and our world. Learn to keep your word and be responsible for your word. Then notice the shift in life.  Love is the strongest power which man holds. why do you shy away from it.

 

New Friends MMMM

Good Friends: MMMM another topic to write about. New friends can be better to reflect your current circumstances and provide you with emotional and practical support, while you could say this..old friends/pals/mates; those repositories of shared memories can connect with your present life with your past life. look at the areas which you find yours...elf in.. then think....

The loneliness Paradox; suffering from lack of friends for awhile, there is a chance your social meter is distorted, influencing you to be more cynical and less receptive to good natured overtures from others. Start expecting better from them and they will deliver.....: Friend-Date; Do not be afraid to ask out a person for a coffee date, as they probably be flattered. Place yourself on the line, ... for love and friendship.....: Fight the Similarity Drive.

 Although we are drawn to people with similar foundations and profiles, things can be even more satisfying that a perfect match.......don't be restrained by your barriers....:Embrace Conflict;  Accepting the occasional tuffs, tiffs  is/as part of life ..expanding you as a being..... sounds a  doozy huh?...When your in for the long haul the two of you will require to learn to communicate, misunderstandings are part of learning so is clarification.

Do not allow the friendship fade just because you would rather avoid bringing up a grievance... vent it and then listen to the replies. and communicate. There is more... although I think you get my drift. Love to you all..

SFS xxx

Thoughts..Life..World

❤¸.•*""*•.¸❤In this world there is man. In this world there is nowhere to hide. All men have a soul and the difference we make is just what faces us. I see another world. The difference one individual can make among the madness of life, changes the world. To hold in your arms one dying person, gives your life a different view on life. To open your heart up and keep it open, gives you control over your life and expands the world around you.~Sonia F Stevens copyrighted 2012 ❤¸.•*""*•.¸❤

 

I found that who I am is unimportant. What I do is more important. Inspire creative passions which you were born to achieve and be, is!

Prevention Wisdom of Suicide

 Topic Of the Day: Prevention Wisdom of Suicide. This has come up many time. The only real risk in prevention is not doing anything. Although many people do this. When there is a reason to be worried about a person, it is important to share that information.

"What do you think about this situation?".

Mental Health is very important, so approaching someone in the Mental Health, even by animus, to get an idea on steps to follow with your intuition. A big part in suicide prevention is to be a great listener.
Many times, there is impulses to minimise the experience of a person who says, "My partner left me", I feel horrible", I'm flunking". Do not give the pep talk, "Its not all that bad", "that IS NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT". bETTER TO SAY THE FOLLOWING, "You're not the first person to feel this way.

I am here for you. I know where we can get some assistance. Let's Call them. It is important to be prepared and not scared. It is empowering for both to know what to look for. There are many warning signs, text messages, on line videos, promoting their plans through these media sources. Many exhibit paranoia, schizophrenia, delusions even hallucinations.

There is no simple explanation for a very complex behaviour with biological, sociological, psychological ,conscious and unconscious elements. How a tragedy is managed can influence whether someone else might attempt on their life. Post mention,- the actions taken after a tragedy, then comes a form of prevention. Our culture does little to assist the grieving; The message everyone.. I mean everyone is "GET OVER IT" The ones left behind want to know "WHY" and their feeling of "Guilt" as they may have had an argument with that loved one. There is NO "Get over it". That is the wrong thing to even say to another person.

 Many families that do best after a such a tragedy has a healthy communication before that point. Sharing their pain and grief. They talk together.      Those who shut themselves off are the ones who require tolerance love and understanding and someone to never give up on them also. written by Sonia F Stevens

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Judgements

Non Judgemental is not reacting or giving advice according to your own belief system.  Fully accepting the person and their experiences, which can be separate to your own experiences.  Non judgement is genuine acceptance of different backgrounds and beliefs between you and the other person.
Suspension of judgement is suitable whenever someone discloses themselves and are feeling vulnerable to other peoples opinions and criticisms.  When they are trying to open up and trust you. We can often make judgements or conclusions too early before someone has finished talking. I find being non-judgemental in communicating takes a lot of self awareness.

Non-judgemental is important in interpersonal communication because it allows you to be completely open to the other person and what they are discussing and the other person will be heard.  It enables the person to experience and accept more of who they are and reconnect with their values and self worth.  It allows you to fully understand & value the other person’s point of view.

 

people with a twist.

The Past is now in Past. Completion of that past is always with you. When you have done that, the world opens up and your movement forward begins with ease as it is no longer a struggle.

 Some people like to inform you in private that your in control and they are doing other things and have no time for that area, then turn around in public and slam...m you down.. What you do is, you stand. You walk away from them and be proud of who you are, as you have integrity and they don't. They just proven their word means nothing and yours means everything.. especially when people know the truth.

Your the one who has standards, your the one who never needs to prove a thing. Your the one who has gain the respect which no amount of money or influences can buy that respect.

Aging is inevitable; maturing is optional

 Aging is inevitable; maturing is optional

Yet in the mist of all darkness, there are some people who will not give up. I see some people who will not give up even when all hope is lost. Some people give love when it never is given back to them.

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Who has not lost faith.

Watching people kill each other over race and greed, waging war over dust and rubble, old words in books of long past.. Yet there are some people who will not be bound, some people who give love are love and share love, some people who realise being lost is closer to being found.

When you love a person without a thought of oneself, even though loves another and will never love you..

My love, my hope for mankind is no less than any other, to believe, acknowledge and inspire with trust and love from the very being. If this is wrong then that is your choice, as this is mine and is how I am. I cannot make anyone believe or live their lives, I can only be me and live the way I am being me.

When you’re given an order that you don’t believe in what is it you do..

I lived my life in that question and yet I believe in people, have faith in people, and still love one who will never return that love, I love, trust and have faith in people.. Thing is whenever I get down, I get up and keep going. Something deep inside keeps me going even in the darkest times. The love of people the belief in people still keeps me moving forward. The friendships made and the friendships which were never meant to be still keep giving me faith on those around me. Even when at time I am lost, the light inside of me rekindles and forgiving, caring comes to the for front of my life..

People will not have trust in me; there is faith, trust, love for them from me..I don’t need to be known or shown off. I am just here for the service of you. As for fame of popularity is yours.. I believe in every one of my friends, they have great talent and so much to offer others.

I was given an order that no one cares and should not give anyone time as they would not do the same for me.. (LONG TIME AGO).Thing is I have faith, love and compassion for you and I will never take on that order. My expectations may never be filled on that, thing is I will always be there for you, no matter what...just sometimes I need a holiday too...

Sometimes I do require a bit of compassion and love too, as it feeds my very being.